17.10.2008
As I´ve been travelling across
the world, and I have seen and experied so many interesting facts
and ways of thinking so I felt, I have to write some of my thoughts
down.
During my vacation in Greece, I did experience the fact that we, people,
are so so different around the world.
Greeks seems to be very loud , whatever happens, there is a lot of
noice and often much screaming going on. U got the feeling sometimes
that they argue all the time.
But then when it comes to their animals they love them extremely much,
as the matter of fact even too much.
So much that the normal way to treat an animal is far away from their
thoughts.
Dogs are mostly been treated like babys, and I have seen even familys
where dogs comes before children.
This causes many different kind of problems as, dogs attacking each
others,and most scaring also attacking people.
Disciplin and manners seems to be out of question, and for me, as
a mother and a breeder, it was very difficult to quietly whitness
this lack of manners. Even if u did try to explain the fact, that
a dog needs a master,and that a dog feels safe with an owner to respect
and who has authoritie, they did most of the time just smile at me.
As this is a small problem among a much larger problem, I feel this
needs a bit speculation.
In Africa kids go to a place called kindergarden from the age of 3
years, they actually sit from 8-10 hours without toys, pauses or activities,
and start already to get basic lessons like in school.
Even if it is against the law spanking, and beating the children is
a daily fact. Extremely interesting is, that when those children grows
, and became adults they as all the people overthere seems to be the
most friendly, caring and loving persons.
Also respect for the parents and friends is an absolutely crystal
clear thing, and well seen in the normal life there. It could not
ever happen that anyone carrie a gun to the school, without mentioning
killing half of a class include teacher.
In Finland we have had two big tragedys in less then one year.
Last autumn a boy did kill several schoolmates and himself in a school
in Finland, now almost exactly one year later, a repeating of that
tragedy happened again.
People overhere suffers of depresssion and as I see it, there is a
huge lack of respect seen in the young children today. If there is
nothing to respect, or see upt o how can u feel happy or satisfied?
The goverment find several excuses why this could possibly happen,
but as always I have my own theories.
As sometime ago they told us at national news that people have more
difficulties with their dogs, as ever before, their is seen also a
lot of agressivitie, and strange behaviour in dogs, and it seems to
cause serious problems for the owners.
Well, I´m not surprized at all.
We have come into some new trend where everything has to go smooth
and without violence, well that is a very nice thought but in every
case that just don`t work, in every case, and we have proofs of it
now.
It is against the law as a teacher to lay his hand on a student in
Finland, and I mean LAY HIS HAND.
Also anykind of disciplin seems to be out of fashion. I see almost
everyday screaming and shouting kids in the shop, and desperate parents
who try to talk kindly to the child, without making any sceen out
of it, because if they should once in a lifetime, grab the child walk
out with him, and punish him for bad behaviour, probably there should
be immediately, cups, and socialworkers waiting for the poor parent.
How in the earth can we expect people to handle a difficult dog, have
anyone tried to punish a dog by talking?
Well this new soft mentalitie and lack of disciplin, in my opinion
causes just difficulties in so people as dogs.
And I don`t really mean you should spank your child or your dog on
daily basis.
But hello!!! There has to be some rules and regulations even the worst
child or dog should must obay, and I don`t think we really get rid
of this problem by hush hush, and a soft speach...
I truly believe that respect for your parents or your teachers, can`t
cause killing of a class.
And when a dog is in hands, so to say, even if u sometimes need to
shake it a bit, doesn`t cause anything else then a more stabil and
respecting dog, who feels safe and loved, and at that point, loves
more and gives more to his owner.
